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SECRET LOOOVAZ!

I love love! I may even consider myself a border line, closeted hopeless romantic. I'll admit. I often find myself looking through those wedding magazines, picking out bridesmaid dresses for my friends when I don't even have a boyfriend. But that's just between you and me. It's just the stuff you have to go through to BE in love that scares the hell out of me. 

Like, I'm on this flight right now. This couple sitting a few rows in front of me is HELLA old right? And they are all hugged up, holding hands and napping. Now, the average person might look at them and think, "Awwww! that's so beautiful, I want that one day" But I'm sitting here thinking "damn, I wonder how many baby mamas she had to deal with to get that" or "I wonder if he gotta deal with a crazy mama in law". Guys, it`s real out here. Don`t get lost in the hype of being in a relationship or holding a title. There is so much more to it. They look good on social media but homegirl can`t even cook cereal. They hugged up at the movies but she has to deal with his nasty chest hair when he takes off his shirt.

 With all of that being said, Ladies and Gents, I ask you, is the struggle really worth it?  

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